Trying It Out: Story Recommendations

The other day, I had a hankering (as I said on Twitter, and isn’t that a great word?) for what I termed “gay tryout” stories. What I mean was stories featuring a guy who’s never been with another guy asking a gay friend to, well, break him in, for want of a better phrase. These would probably be considered a subtrope of “gay/out for you,” though I was specifically looking for guys who already know they aren’t straight. A story that turns the trope on its ear is good, too. Naturally, I’d want the guys to end up together. 🙂

I got a lot of interest and several suggestions, some of which I’d read and some of which I hadn’t, so I thought I’d share the list here. You’ll notice a lot are college stories, which isn’t surprising. I’ve added brief descriptions to the ones I’ve read. If you know of more that you think fit, please feel free to share in comments and I’ll add them!

Wanting by Piper Vaughn: College-bound guy asks older brother’s gay best friend to take his virginity.

Campus Visit by Stella Huerto: College guy comes out as bi to his gay best friend and asks if he’ll be his first male lover.

Blame it on the Mistletoe by Eli Easton: Straight college guy teaches his virginal roommate to kiss… and more.

Love Lessons by Heidi Cullinan: Promiscuous college guy “breaks in” his virginal roommate.

Frat Boy & Toppy by Anne Tenino: College TA teaches a closeted student all about gay sex.

His Roommate’s Pleasure by Lana McGregor

The Closer You Get by LA Witt

Broken Boundaries by Evangeline Anderson

Bonds of Desire by Lynda Aicher (M/M/F)

Guest Post: Remembering Internment Camps

For those who aren’t aware, last week marked the 72nd anniversary of the order that authorized the relocation of Japanese Americans along the US West Coast into internment camps. More than 110,000 people of Japanese heritage were sent to these camps; most were US citizens. Actor George Takei is among the best-known former internees.

The internment figured into the backstory of one of the characters in Charley Descoteaux’s book Curious Sustenance. I’ve invited her here to talk more about that.

Thanks so much for having me, Shae! I appreciate the chance to talk about something serious every once in a while.


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I grew up in California in the 1970s so a lot of things were commonplace that maybe weren’t in other areas of the country: we learned about conserving water and recycling, I had neighbors who were openly gay, and I knew people who had lived in internment camps.

The family of one of my best childhood friends had been “relocated” to one of those camps. She hadn’t been born yet but it still affected her life. By the time we were in the first grade together her family had just started to recover from losing everything because their ancestors were Japanese. At the time I didn’t think much of it—I loved Linda and hanging out with her and her family (and they were better off than my family), and that’s all I knew.

It wasn’t until I started college in my 30s that I fully realized what Linda’s parents and grandparents had gone through. Back then, it was a dirty little secret—when the adults talked about it they hid behind their hands and when I had questions they told me to go outside and play. Not anymore. At the same time Linda’s mom was teaching us to conjugate Japanese verbs my future history professor was driving all over rural Oregon to interview people who had been imprisoned in the camps. He did his master’s thesis on the subject, and after a few beers would talk about some of the horrific things he learned about our “free country” during that time. But not all of his experiences were painful. Many of the people he interviewed had found a way to be happy, to create the life they wanted despite the challenges of starting from scratch.


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Some of what I learned about those conversations becamse touchstones in Miles’ backstory for Curious Sustenance. He’s dealing with the pressure to keep his family’s home—which the Shigiharas lost along with everything else in the World War II era. I didn’t want to delve too deeply into this difficult topic—both because CS is mainly Ross’s story, and because Miles himself only focused on it when forced. I wanted CS to be a hopeful story, one of readjusting boundaries to fit the life we want for ourselves.

If you’re interested in learning about this period of US history—maybe get a different view than the one you learned in school—I suggest starting with this site: the PBS Children of the Camps Project, initiated by Dr. Satsuki Ina.

I’ve read that some people write LGBT Romances to give people they’ve known the happy endings they didn’t get, and I understand how they feel. I didn’t set out to write a story about the Japanese Internment, but when it came up as a tangent I didn’t turn away. Writing Curious Sustenance made me happy, and I hope reading it will make you happy. If it makes you think a little, that’s cool too.

This is the first excerpt I’m sharing from Miles’ point of view. It takes place after his deposition and the other man in the scene is the one who filed the suit. It’s not sexy, but I hope you enjoy it anyway.

Before Miles could start the truck, the rap of knuckles on his window whipped his head around. For a split second, he wished he knew how to use tai chi as a martial art and not just a way to wake up in the morning, but then he saw it was Frank. Frank backhanded the window once more, and Miles slowly cranked it open. Maybe it would be a good idea to invest in some mace, or a Taser. Miles had a few inches on Frank, along with about thirty pounds, but the thought of touching him made Miles’s skin crawl.

 Frank glared down at Miles for a long moment, and again Miles wondered what he’d ever seen in those blue eyes to make him believe a word out of that ugly mouth. Frank Williams had walked someone else’s dog past Miles’s home once a day for a month to try to catch him outside and start a conversation—he’d admitted that much the first time Miles smiled up from the floor between his feet. Miles shuddered at the memory, and pushed it away.

“What do you want?”

“Give me the house, and you can keep your business. I don’t want it anyway.”

Miles opened his mouth to ask why he should care what Frank wanted, but then remembered he’d asked and closed it without speaking.

“It’s my house—my family’s house. Do the right thing, and we both win.”

Frank turned and stalked away, leaving Miles trying not to literally spit and sputter. Instead, he threw the truck’s door open and in three long strides closed half the distance between it and Frank. He managed to keep from grabbing him and throwing him to the ground, but that took most of his last shreds of control.

“Fuck you, it’s your family’s house!”

Frank turned so the side of his body faced Miles. He realized it was bad that Frank seemed happy but couldn’t stop himself.

“My grandparents lived in that house in the thirties, and my father would’ve grown up there if they hadn’t been tossed into a concentration camp for being Japanese, asshole.”

“What happened to your Zen tranquility, Miles?”

Miles forced his voice out past his clenched jaw. “It’s keeping me from strangling you. You’ll get my home over my dead body.”

The way Frank grinned gave Miles a withering feeling that said he’d regret answering that particular question. A few moments later, Frank ambled away, hands in his pockets and a swing in his step. Whistling.

Ross Jenson is looking forward to a little midmorning delight to celebrate making Lifetime in Weight Watchers, but after he spent eight months losing ninety-eight pounds, what his lover gets him is a triple-layer chocolate cake. When Ross refuses to eat it, the newly minted ex leaves the country and dumps him via e-mail, with three sentences and a link to a chubby chasers web site. A few days later, Ross’s best friend and workout buddy takes him to her favorite club for drinks. Ross is shocked when he realizes it’s a sex club but warms to the idea in record time when a mysterious Japanese man and his silken ropes sweep him off his feet. Ross has never thought of himself as adventurous, but he can’t stop thinking about the man who makes his bones feel like gummy worms.

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Warnings: This book features a corporate sensitivity trainer with an agenda, an awesome gal-pal, an unconventional sex club, a mysterious Japanese rope artist, and another taste of Portland, Oregon as seen through my twisted mind.

Charley Descoteaux has always heard voices. She was relieved to learn they were fictional characters, and started writing when they insisted daydreaming just wasn’t good enough. In exchange, they let her sleep once in a while. Every guy deserves a beautiful love story even, or maybe especially, the ones who would usually be in the supporting cast. Home is Portland, Oregon, where the weather is like your favorite hard-case writing buddy who won’t let you get away with taking too many days off, and in some places you can be as weird as you are without fear. As an out and proud bisexual and life-long weird-o, she thinks that last part is pretty cool.

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Abandoning Ship Before You Drown: On Silver Publishing

sinkingshipExcuse me while I step into the breach….

Someone extremely astute might have noticed a change in the list of my publishers over there on the right side of this page. There used to be five. Now there are four.

In January, I got back the rights to the second story I published with Silver Publishing, bringing to an end my business relationship with them. I’d been part of their editorial staff briefly, and I attended the workshop/retreat the company gave in Gatlinburg a year and a half ago. I want to be sure to note that the editors and others with Silver I worked with were great.

It was shortly after we returned from that retreat that I found out about Silver’s financial problems. I had a story in revise-and-resubmit status at the time, so I set it aside while I waited to see if this was a short-term glitch or something more serious. A year and a half has passed, and sadly, it appears it was the latter.

I was lucky. My royalty amounts were never large and slowed to a trickle on their own even before my contracts expired, and I have received regular payments, though I don’t know how accurate they are. However, other authors have had multiple novels, long series, and huge parts of their backlist with Silver. They’ve depended heavily on those owed royalties to pay the bills, and they haven’t been getting paid on time, in full, or in some cases, at all. Some authors have gotten back rights to books, but many of those authors are still owed back royalties.

This is an awful situation for the authors, both those who still have books with Silver and those who have their book rights back but are still owed substantial sums of money. I don’t know details of the financial situation or what is being done to resolve it, just that authors not being paid as contracted.

Other authors have posted about this situation, though it’s been a while. I haven’t said anything in public because, as I said, I was hoping it would be short-term problem. But now, I think it’s important that people know, so they can make informed decisions.

At this point, I would have to recommend that authors do not submit stories to Silver Publishing. As a reader, I’d also look for books that were formerly with Silver and have been republished, either by other publishers or directly by the author. Buying those books could help those authors recoup some of what they’ve lost.

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Monday Music: Shot Full of Holes

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A Facebook friend posted this on Friday, and I had to watch it again. It’s a powerful song written by a brilliant musician, and the video is a mesmerizing performance by an incredibly talented actor. Watching Robert Downey Jr. “sing” these words adds extra layers of depth to their meaning, much as with Johnny Cash’s cover of “Hurt.” If anyone knows…

Worst Valentine’s Day…

Harlequin and CBC Books had a Twitter contest yesterday to come up with the worst Valentine’s Day stories ever (real or imagined). They were giving out books written by Canadian HQ authors, and I couldn’t resist chiming in. I won a copy of Vicki Essex’s In Her Corner, about mixed-martial arts fighters, with this one:

He’d made plans already, so she decided to wait until after the 14th to break up with him. Then at dinner, he proposed.

Er… whoops!

Here are the rest of the ones I posted, just for the fun of it. I hope you had a better Valentine’s Day than any of these folks. 🙂

She packed her things and got on her flight back home. He didn’t come after her.

He was sure he’d cooked the chicken thoroughly. Their romantic evening ending with food poisoning told a different story.

He’d finally found the man of his dreams! He planned the perfect Valentine’s Day dinner to celebrate. Then he got stood up.

She spent the night with her two favorite men: Jack and Jim.

She bit happily into one of the chocolates he’d sent, not thinking to check for nuts first. Good thing her EpiPen was nearby.

She went to his office to surprise him with a sexy lunch. He was surprised all right: he had his mistress bent over his desk.

Free Read: Rescuing Bonnie

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8 Ways Authors Turn Social Media into Antisocial Media

socialmediaAs authors in the 21st Century, we need to be aware of where our readers are and how to reach them. I don’t think I’m telling anyone something new when I say that means paying attention to social media. The trick is how to reach those all-important readers without driving them away.

As I was working on this post, Forbes posted a pretty good article on how social media works: The Truth About Social Media. It’s got some great tips, but the main one that applies to my list is #5: Converse, don’t broadcast.

Everyone uses social media differently. Some people are on every service, some are active on just one or two services, and some ignore it completely. (I don’t recommend that last option, for the record.) What I see far too many people forgetting is the social part of social media. It’s not a broadcast box. You aren’t standing on a street corner handing out fliers for your comedy show and hoping they don’t end up in the nearest trash can. It’s a conversation. You’re talking to people, not at them. Or you should be, at least.

As a fairly heavy user of both Twitter and Facebook, I’ve come across a handful of practices that make me grind my teeth. If these things are annoying me, there’s a pretty good chance they’re annoying other people, too, but just to check, I asked on Twitter and Facebook what author practices drive people crazy. Most of the things that were mentioned were already on my list. (And big thanks to all of you who responded!)

In short: here are 8 things you as an author may be doing on social media to drive people (and thus potential readers) away.

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Leveling the Playing Field

olympicsOver the past year or so, the news has been filled with stories of athletes coming out of the closet. Athletes in two major sports in the United States, Jason Collins in the National Basketball Association and Robbie Rogers in Major League Soccer, have taken the huge step of coming out. Pro boxer Orlando Cruz came out and has since gotten engaged. A number of individual and team Olympic athletes have come out as well, including diver Tom Daley, gymnast Josh Dixon, and women’s soccer star Megan Rapinoe. A total of six out athletes will compete at 2014 Olympics Winter Games, which start today in Sochi, Russia.

But not everything is coming up roses, to say the least. Jason Collins is still without a team. In the National Football League, two straight allies, Chris Kluwe and Brendon Ayanbadejo, spoke out in support of marriage equality, and another player, Kerry Rhodes, was rumored to be gay. All are teamless now. No one in professional baseball, hockey, or (American) football has yet to come out while an active player. (With the exception of Glenn Burke back in the 1970s.)

Google2-6-14And, of course, there’s Sochi. Russia’s new, severe laws against homosexuality have raised alarms worldwide, both for the people who are traveling there for the Games and for those who live there. The International Olympic Committee and a number of Olympics sponsors are under fire for not speaking out against Russia’s attacks—both figurative and literal—on homosexuality and homosexuals. Several world leaders, including President Obama, have declined to attend the Games, and the United States put together an official delegation that includes out former athletes. And yesterday, Google posted a new “doodle” (as shown) that makes its message rainbow-clear.

For every step forward, sports seems to take another step back when it comes to gay athletes. How will this all end? I don’t know. I know a lot of people in and surrounding the LGBT community are torn. Do we ignore Sochi in protest of Russia’s laws? Or do we watch to support the athletes, including those who are gay (openly or not)? It’s ironic to see the rainbow colors of the Olympic Games heralded in a city where waving a full rainbow flag can get you beaten, arrested, or worse.

principle_6_quoteOne rallying point for the Olympics issue has become the Principle 6 campaign, which is based on the part of the Olympic charter that reads: Any form of discrimination with regard to a country or a person on grounds of race, religion, politics, gender or otherwise is incompatible with belonging to the Olympic Movement. This new organization is raising funds to support LGBT advocacy groups in Russia, but they’re only one group that’s fighting this fight. A number of organizations have been leading the way in the efforts to make sports at all levels more accepting of athletes of all sexualities.

youcanplayRussianYou Can Play fights homophobia not just among players but also among fans and is “dedicated to ensuring equality, respect and safety for all athletes, without regard to sexual orientation.” YCP was co-founded by Patrick Burke (no relation to Glenn Burke), who’s the son of Toronto Maple Leafs general manager Brian Burke, who serves on the organization’s advisory board. Patrick’s youngest brother (Brian’s son), Brendan, was an openly gay college hockey player who was outspoken against homophobia in sports. He died in a car accident in 2010, and YCP was founded in March 2012 his memory. The version of the organization’s logo shown here reads “you can play” in Russian.

GO! Athletes focuses on student athletes, “educating athletes, coaches, administrators, and fans to foster athletic communities that are accepting of ALL, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.” Founded in January 2008 by seven current and former LGBT athletes, GO! offers peer support, training and workshops for staff and athletes, and educational materials to help fight homophobia, transphobia, and other forms of LGBTQA discrimination.

You Belong was founded by former NFL player Wade Davis, who came out last year and has just taken over as executive director of You Can Play. This initiative will be offering sports instruction and leadership development clinics for LGBTQ youth and straight allies nationwide. The first clinic was held in July 2013.

The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network’s Changing the Game project focuses on the kindergarten through grade 12 school levels. The program aims to help “in creating and maintaining an athletic and physical education climate that is based on the core principles of respect, safety and equal access for all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression.” Board members include Patrick and Brian Burke.

Each of these organizations has a lot to offer to LGBT athletes and their straight allies. I encourage you to check them out and donate your time or money if you can. Working together, we can help make it easier for talented athletes to play the games they love without losing out simply because of who they are.

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Blog Tour: In the Absence of Monsters by J.P. Barnaby

In the Absence of Monsters Behind the Scenes
An Interview with Jake Driver

A year ago, this past October, I met saw Jake Driver at Atlanta Pride. He hung out with the other guys, but I really didn’t have much interaction with him. I knew he’d been there because I had a picture of him, but we didn’t talk. A few months later, we struck up a conversation on Twitter, and I really looked at his Twitter avi. I remember actually reaching out to touch the screen, because after years of wondering, I’d finally seen Master Ethan. We became friends over the intervening year, and when I flew down for the RWA National Convention in July of 2013, we had dinner together. Spending a few hours in his company made me realize that I wanted nothing more than to not only continue writing Master Ethan, but I wanted this man on the cover. I had no idea how I’d accomplish either of those tasks, but eventually, it happened. Wilde City approached me about reissuing the series with them, and my good friend Gio Caruso would happen to be in Atlanta for pride. It seemed destined that I’d be able to continue the series with my Master Ethan at the helm.

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Making a Few Changes

changeI’ve been a bit adrift, writing-wise, in recent months. I finished writing my story for the Butt Ninjas from Hell anthology on time, and I submitted an out-of-print story for re-publication in another anthology. But my WIPs are languishing, with only dribs and drabs being added here and there, and I can’t seem to focus on much of anything.

So, it’s time to make a few changes.

First, I’m dropping word count meters. I deleted the one that used to appear on this site, I’m filing away the spreadsheet I was using to track word counts, and I’m taking those numbers off the top of any story file I update from now on. Word counts aren’t the point. Finishing the story is the point. If that’s the 8,500 words it took to write my ninja story, the 81,000 words in my first novel, or some number higher, lower, or in between, then that’s how long the story will be. I’ve been getting bogged down in watching those numbers and forgetting about what’s really important.

Second, I’m cutting way back on my travel this year. I have two trips planned: Tampa for RainbowCon and Portland for the Dreamspinner author’s workshop in April (one long trip, since they’re back to back), and Chicago for GayRomLit in October. I’ll also be at the usual two local events, Outlantacon and Dragon Con, and there’s another local event I’m considering. Mainly, what this means is no RT and no RWA. The costs are just too high for the return at this point. I need to get more books out before those meetings will be worth the time and money.

Last, I’m going to start setting my own deadlines and rewarding myself when I meet them. When I have external deadlines (all three of my most recently completed stories had publisher-imposed deadlines), I meet them. It might be on the very DAY it’s due, but it gets done. I need to work on developing the discipline to set and meet deadlines of my own. As the first step, I have a self-imposed deadline to finish one of my WIPs by March 31. I don’t care which story; I have three strong contenders, though one is more likely than the others. My reward if I meet the deadline? Well, I might actually get a new story out in time for GRL, for one thing, but the real reward is more direct: a trip. (I have a specific place and date for that, but I’m keeping the details to myself for now.)

Okay. That’s enough navel-gazing for one day. I have things to do, and some of them might even involve writing. Hope you’re all having a good weekend!

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